5 Women & a Baby

Posted in News on September 24th, 2012 by admin
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Written by Cindy Ryan

 

Maya is so tiny. Still under 80 pounds and she is six months pregnant with her fourth child. But there has been progress (She has gained almost 20 lbs in the last 7 weeks) and the sustained hope that with four women watching over her she will deliver a healthy child from a healthy body.

For a poor woman in Mumbai to deliver a baby in hospital and receive a modicum of care, she must register with a municipal hospital. This will ensure her baby has a record of birth, the first step in being counted. Maya, in her early twenties, and already a mother to three children, is one of millions of poor women, pregnant, malnourished and frail who must rely on inadequate maternity care at a municipal hospital or remain at home foregoing any prenatal care.

Maya’s home is a tiny cement box just off the lane way, near the bridge where the traffic flows day and night and the bad kids from the slum gather to lounge, spit, and pass time. Standing in her home I have to be mindful of the fan just above my head. Maya turned it off and giggled as she rummaged through the plastic bags hanging on nails, looking for her past medical records. Her husband, Pramod, sat slumped against the wall, sleepy from a night of work at a powder coating company. He made a comment in Hindi to Maya and her eyes glossed over with tears and her face became tight. Reluctantly, Maya left her home with me to go to a municipal hospital to register and get the first check-up for her pregnancy. Once in a rickshaw, Maya let the tears flow and I anxiously asked Indu, who was accompanying us, to ask what was upsetting her. Maya told Indu that her husband told her she was to return home within two hours or she should not come back. Hoping this was just a sleep-deprived man talking nonsense, we continued on our journey to the hospital.

We arrived at the hospital and took our place in a line-up outside in a cement courtyard to wait over an hour for a clerk to open a window to process maternity patients for one hour only. There were at least 80 women in front of us, and soon, over 100 women behind us.  Maya perched on a ledge wet with spongy green moss while Indu and I kept our place in the line. The women waited, tolerant and patient. The hems of their sari’s wafted in strong breezes, fluttering and falling with each gust of wind that suddenly came and went. There were burka-clad women chatting in tight groups and women sitting cross-legged on the ground continuously wrapping the end of their sari’s over their heads for shade.  A few husbands littered the crowd. I was envious for Maya that some of these women had husbands by their sides.  When the rain started, the chatter became more animated, and the wait became more frustrating.

Once inside the hospital, Maya was separated from Indu and me, and made her way upstairs to sit in rows of a few hundred pregnant women for her turn to be weighed, measured, have her blood tested, talk to a doctor, and then return downstairs for a tetanus shot and supplements which, in Maya’s case they were out of. This was a four hour process. Indu and I took turns sneaking up the stairway to peer in at the waiting women, trying to spot Maya in the crowd, trying to determine when it would be her turn. The public area of the hospital has two benches for hundreds of people coming and going, waiting and worrying. We eyed the benches, waiting for a turn to sit if only for a few minutes.

Municipal hospitals are for the poor and are run by the government. The services provided are barely adequate and anyone who could afford to go elsewhere would not enter this place. The interior of this hospital had moldy, smeared walls and large rooms with numerous beds and no privacy. Rusted iron tables sat beside sagging iron beds covered with dirty pink pieces of rubber laid over stained sheets. The staff seem burdened and sluggish. The cleaners mopped lazily over large swaths of floor, moving dirt around in concentric circles.

For the poor, the alternative to having their baby in a municipal hospital is to have a home birth. Maya, who is from Nepal, had her first daughter, Suman who is now six, in a field in a remote village where she lived.  Her second child, Prem, now four years old, came suddenly while Maya was in her home. Her third child, Nandini, was born in a hospital in Mumbai, just over a year ago. Maya and the many poor, pregnant women like her, need much more care than what a municipal hospital can provide. Thankfully, Mumbai has a Foundation for Mother and Child Health clinic (www.fmch-india.org) which provide mothers free information on nutrition, health care, hygiene, as well as necessary supplements and personal attention from Dr. Rupal Dalal and her team of social workers and nutritionists. When we first took Maya and her children to Dr. Rupal a few months ago, she weighed 70 pounds at four months pregnant. Suman and Nandini were malnourished and Prem had calcium deficiencies. Watching Dr. Rupal handle her caseload of women and children is inspiring. A pediatrician and a mother, Dr. Rupal is devoted and dedicated to their care. She requires the women to be pro-active with the health of their children and themselves and to visit the clinic on a regular basis. It is a struggle to keep these women, many of whom are illiterate and abused by husbands, to maintain the regimen Dr. Rupal and her team aim for, but the success stories, of which there are many, are worth the fight. Months ago, we took a family of six kids to Dr. Rupal, all of them malnourished, and they are now healthy, active and energetic.

Since our departure from Mumbai in August, we have enlisted the help of two wonderful women (Jaita Guhu and Aarti Kalro) who had volunteered with DWP in the Saki Naka community, to ensure that Maya and her family continue to get the care they need to become healthy. Jaita and Aarti have kept Maya and her children on task with supplements, hospital visits and visits to the Foundation for Mother and Child Health. This is no small favour. Maya can’t manage any of these trips on her own and her husband has so far not accompanied her, so Jaita and Aarti must take hours out of their day to ferry her back and forth through the thick of Mumbai traffic to ensure she gets to the clinic and the hospital. Because Maya can’t read, they must also help her to understand instructions for medication and supplements. Her health and the health of her children count on them.

Aarti and Jaita report that both Nandini and Prem are now healthy and Suman is progressing, but not quite there yet. Maya is now almost 90 pounds at 6 months pregnant, but still needs more nutrient rich food in her diet. Dr. Rupal gave Maya some food bars containing essential nutrients as well as some health bars for the children. She has instructed Maya to include eggs three times a week in all their diets. Aarti is suggesting that she take Maya to register at a municipal hospital much closer to the community which will make it easier to get to when the time comes for Maya to give birth.

With the expert care, and loving attention that Maya and her children are receiving from all of these selfless women, we are hopeful that she delivers a healthy baby while improving her own fragile health. The problem Maya and most poor women in India face is the lack of knowledge regarding basic nutrition and the lack of quantity and quality of food they can afford. One out of every three malnourished children in the world live in India. Many kids in the slum live on glucose based biscuits, sugary tea, watery dal and white rice. As Dr. Rupal has pointed out to me, malnourished kids have stunted growth, lower IQ’s, and higher rates of infectious diseases. Cramped living conditions, open sewers, and not boiling drinking water leaves them at risk for constant illnesses. The Foundation for Mother and Child Health (FMCH) is taking the necessary steps to educate those who come to their clinics. Kane and I met with Dottie Wagle, the Chairperson of the India Branch of FMCH. In our short meeting we understood how determined she is to continue this initiative in other areas in Mumbai, making this amazing, free service for the poor accessible to more communities throughout Mumbai.

We are hoping that Maya and her young family can be the example of what quality care, education and a community of caring women can do for the poor, the illiterate and the abused. Maya is becoming less shy and more capable and is already showing signs of a take-charge attitude to her children’s health-care. This is progress. We had a chance to talk to Maya, Suman and Prem on the phone while they were with Jaita a few days ago. Though the conversation is limited to the little Hindi we could understand, it was great to hear Suman’s raspy voice and Prem’s constant chatter. And sweet Maya was as happy to hear our voices as we were to hear hers.

 

 

 

 

 

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Up Close and Personal

Posted in News on July 28th, 2012 by admin
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Written and photographed by Cindy Ryan

 

Flying low over Mumbai, the plane rushes over squares of torn blue plastic, pulled and pinched, secured with bricks and steel pipes. Squint your eyes and slum homes from the air resemble a river of water, its tributaries  invading every space not occupied by high-rise towers. With my forehead pressed against the window of the plane, I try to sort out which blue plastic roofs belong to the Saki Naka community and I get excited about landing. Soon I will be in the thick of it and my heart sings at the thought.

I’m only here for a scant three weeks this time and already my guts are telling me to stay longer. There is always so much to do, so many people to see, and what will I find behind the curtained doorways of the slum community this time?

I leave the plane with an imaginary coat of thin armour to protect me from what I can’t do in such a short amount of time and step out into the humid air of Mumbai. Kane, one of the few white faces in the crowded arrivals area, steps out and welcomes me once again. Suddenly, I am mobbed by Indu, Shashi, Seema and Ruby, who have waited patiently to welcome me. Now I am giddy with excitement again. I have worked side by side in the GCB centre with these beautiful women for months, and I think of them as friends, albeit the conversation is limited to what Indu can translate for all of us.

This whirling, active, bleak and bare bones community, stuffed with too many people, is also the scene of a meeting that has ended in a wedding, another reason why I have returned to Saki Naka. Sarah Petrescu, a journalist from Victoria B.C., volunteered with DWP last October. She immediately attached herself to the women of the GCB and helped us create prototypes and products before leaving for a volunteer stint in Bangalore. Within days of Sarah’s arrival in Mumbai, she attended a Diwali celebration in the community. Also invited to this event was Ashley Fernandes, a friend from Mumbai who has  contributed to DWP. A brief introduction in the midst of the overcrowded garden in the middle of the slum community during the Festival of Light, has led to their wedding 10 months later.

On July 26th, 2012, Sarah and Ashley were married in the Catholic church just down the road from Kane’s apartment. Wanting the community to be part of the celebration of the relationship which blossomed in their midst, Sarah and Ashley invited the GCB women and their small children and Ranjana and her family. Ashley Pereira (Janvi Charitable Trust), a devoted member of the church where they married, did a reading, and beautiful fabric garlands, made for Sarah by the GCB women, draped the elegant doorway to the church. A full circle of events inspired by the generosity of a slum community, friends and family, in the middle of the monsoon season where cement walls resemble, thick, wet, green sponges.

Between wedding festivities, I have been running after children in the slum, jumping over puddles thick with mud and gooey remnants of garbage, finding shelter from the rain in the school or in slum homes where I am invited for chai and dal, and nodding in faint comprehension in conversations conducted in Hindi or Marathi.

While the monsoon rains bring relief, and sometimes a cool breeze, slum dwellers, hiding from the rains, stay inside, breathing the foul air of their cramped huts. Infections, coughs, runny noses, plus lethargy, bring a host of complications to already fragile health. Sweet, young, frail Maya, who is four months pregnant with her fourth child, was hospitalized with the worry of TB. Almost excited for her to be confined to bed rest in the relative comfort of a soft bed in the confines of a hospital, I was incredulous when she was desperate to go back to her tiny home, where the family of five sleep in an 8 foot by 6 foot cement room, on plastic billboard vinyl laid over a bare cement floor. Putting aside my assumptions of comfort, I must understand this is what Maya knows and this small, damp hut is where her family heaps its joys and sorrows.

Opening my eyes in the morning, the first shaft of light from dull, cottony skies brightens the room where I sleep and I take it in. The rain water has been sucked through the coarse mix of sand and clay bricks that form the outside of the building, creating water stains on the side wall of the room, damp to the touch. Mould forms at the corners and the flaking paint on the ceiling above the whirling, clicking fan, threatens to fall in thin slices onto the bed. The honking that never abates invades the room with a crying, tinny sound. Mumbai is not comfortable, inside or out, it is never clean, never quiet and never dull. What is comfortable here is the people I have met, the slum community I feel at home in and the notion that why I’m here is because it’s where I should be. It will be hard to leave, again. It will be divine to be back in the fresh air of Vancouver, Canada. That is the push and pull of Mumbai, up close and personal.

 

* A full post about Sarah and Ashley’s wedding with photos from the beautiful day coming soon…

 

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Laxmi

Posted in News on June 22nd, 2012 by admin
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Laxmi.

 

Another installment in the interview series with the women of GCB.

Written by Cindy Ryan 

 

They married five years ago and then did not see each other until one year ago, but Laxmi thinks her husband is a good match for her.  At 15 years old, Laxmi’s parents arranged her marriage to a 20 year old man from Uttar Pradesh, a state in northern India where it is customary for women to hide their faces behind the veil of their sari when out in public.

Laxmi, now 21 years old, started her life in a village in Uttar Pradesh until she and her siblings moved to Mumbai with their parents. Her grandmother became responsible for her care when her mother moved to Dubai to work as a maid. Not sensing or understanding the need to educate Laxmi, her grandmother took Laxmi out of school in the 5th grade to work alongside her as a maid in Mumbai. Working Laxmi as if she were a strong adult, not a thin, tiny boned, small girl, the grandmother refused to feed her during the work day.  With only a slight measure of disdain for her grandmother’s actions, Laxmi described her days working  as a maid as a mere interruption of her childhood while she continued to carefully embroider the hand made cards we were making at the Girls Can Be centre, only looking up to smile sweetly while I scribbled my notes.

As a poor, lower caste Indian woman whose ambitions and hopes are hobbled by poverty, misogyny and a life in the margins bracketed by tradition, Laxmi is forgiving and not overwhelmed by having no power or choice in her life. Her vibrant personality, punctuated by fits of giggles seems to negate the dread I sense for her future. Often wearing a bright yellow sari, Laxmi arrived at the Girls Can Be centre with the enthusiasm of a small puppy eager to play with a stick. Rarely sad or forlorn, she sat in the circle of women learning new skills and looked forward to the routine paydays, something she has never had and will not have again once she begins living with her husband after the second, more official, marriage ceremony which will take place in the near future.

As she described her upcoming second Hindu wedding celebration, her eyes were bright, and she struggled to remain demure as the excitement of the celebration almost overwhelmed her. She described the gathering of family, the feasting, the image of herself in a beautiful new sari, her delicate hands decorated with mehendi, and the nervousness she felt about moving in with her husband’s parents after the wedding. She was looking forward to a trip to a village in Uttar Pradesh to meet her husband’s relatives, a long train journey as husband and wife. While Laxmi dreams of her wedding, her parents will have to borrow money for a gold ring and the dowry payment, expected to be between ten and fifteen thousand rupees. ($180 – 280 CAD)

During a baby naming ceremony held in the community for one of Laxmi’s relatives, Laxmi was animated, anxious and excited to be part of this grand celebration. During the evening, the baby’s parents and grandparents held court over an elaborately decorated bassinet containing a pudgy, sleeping infant gently swaying in the chaos of the never-ending line-up of community members who crowded into the eight by ten foot home to peek at the baby, leaving behind coins and well wishes. Laxmi pulled me through the crowd, and pushed me inside though the small doorway, motioning me to look at the baby who she obviously cherished. Grabbing my hand again, we slithered back through the crowd and she lead me to a small room off the narrow lane way where the roofs of the ragged, cobbled together houses almost touch, and sat me with Indu and Shashi. While trying to manage heaps of food on a small plate, Laxmi said she wanted to have children and hoped they would get the education she was not allowed. Her mother, a beautiful woman with a gentle nature, joined us, and it was clear that she and Laxmi share a close bond, regardless of the distance they were separated by when Laxmi was a child.  Confined to the community, with the exception of one outing with DWP, Laxmi has never been to other parts of Mumbai. During the few outings to the nearby streets, she has noticed other young women wearing modern clothing but she knows this is not the life she will live or the person she can imagine herself to be. She has confidence and an eagerness to embrace her future and the nerve to go through with a marriage to someone she barely knows. I am awed by her excitement and her generous view of the life she is headed toward.

Laxmi and her husband, a furniture maker, will move to his uncle’s home where she will learn to live under the rules and the guidance of her mother-in-law. A few weeks before this interview with Laxmi, I noticed her sitting on the stoop just outside the Girls Can Be room. She was smiling sweetly, her eyes had that far-a way look and she was unaware of my presence. When I tried to squeeze by without disrupting her, she grabbed my hand and pointed to the phone pressed against her ear. “Cindy-mom”, she squealed, “It is him, my husband!”. Laxmi is sure her husband is a good person and she is excited to be starting her life with him. Leaving her side to allow her the pretense of being alone with her husband, I walked down the lane way, picking up children, stopping to chat with some of the other women who were busy with chores,  and I began to imagine the life I hope Laxmi will have.  A life with healthy children whom she will encourage to have choices and an education, a husband she will always love and who will cherish her, and a future that she can walk towards with confidence. I want that her life will be as sweet and charming as she is.

 

 

 

 

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